About Shantea Therapy
Ever Since I was a little girl, I deeply enjoyed to spend my days in a library. Read plenty of books, and as much as I admit, they all have incredible value, somehow there were 2 types of books, that stood out for me, spoke to me, kept me dreaming or imagining vividly. The one, where I was the detective, and those where I can day dream, move places, having freedom and am brave, living the colourful life of the main character, feeling his or her feelings, achieving the goal, reaching the destiny.
And my ordinary life, was all of the sudden filled with this infinite beauty, adventures, joy and happiness.
Detective stories and mysteries, clues, followed by human justice, drawn my attention as well. My desire to solve mysteries, predict the next step, bring the let’s call it an “absence of light” to the justice, was always great. Escaped in the world of fantasy, so
timeless and incredibly fascinating, that was my chosen world. Books always thought me something remarkably authentic about the world and people. Permanently written black on white, the truth was so clearly opposite to the absence of it. And the sentences, words and letters did not change or fade by any distractions or a mind game. All the issues were solved, answers were present, a fairness was assured, dotted, written down. The justice was made. A happy end to a kind and hardworking protagonists, deserving the best, for what they yearn them whole life story. It took them often 40 years, to figure it all out. And I had the privilege, to nail it in 40 minutes sometimes. Filled with a satisfaction, feeling comforted, safe and grateful for being a part of a protagonist’s happy ending for a little while, I was curious for another story. Wanting to retain that secure world, picked a new unknown life again and again.
Seeing my little fingers even now, sliding on those old fabric book texture, remembering sensing the age of it, respect and appreciation would describe it precisely, that’s what I remember feeling. And excitement. And I lived many lives, being in a wonderful places, felt that peace in order and a truth .
I wrote and dreamed my stories too, beautiful, empowering, educational.
It was my chosen world, because the real world, didn’t exactly seem to be that fair. I didn’t feel safe, growing up at home, didn’t feel loved and that I matter enough. Feeling of disconnection was so profound, I believed, I must be unworthy, if I didn’t deserve much praise for simply being me, peace and unconditional love. So I believed, it was not available to me, unless. Unless I do what was familiar, to make it good for everyone. To take the blame. To try to fix, what others meant to be dealing with. So, if I can fix it, making it good for anyone, then I will become worthy enough. Worthy of love, significant. Then I’ll be seen and heard. Scarcity would will disappear for a while, and I won’t get punished, blamed or shamed, because, when people, who seems to abuse in any way, are happy enough, I get my peace. If I was punished, then I must be responsible for those issues of others. Therefore I must solve them. That’s what I’ve learn. Therefore, I brought it to all areas of my life, including my home, friends, school.
So I did what I always knew the best. Searching for understanding, answers, solutions, scanning, investigating, predicting. I kept the blame and shame inside of me, because that made unhappy people happier.
So the real world could be less scary for a while. If only I knew, what will happen next. If only I knew, how to fix it for others more and more. And trying to resolve those issues, over and over, that was the only way I ever knew. This was the role I picked, to fix, to care, to take the shot.
And that was a massive task, for a little child. And it was never meant to be my duty. Even as a teenager, neither for an adult.
But I loved it so much! All people are fascinating, so unique and beautiful. And I found my way, how to connect to them. Also, I love to learn. I was soo proud of my skills as well, so happy to solve any mystery of both worlds. Over, and over again. The passion set me for a life.
And because it was so rewarding and fulfilling, it took me a while, to figure out my role, I played that part in it.
So I stopped to play that favourite caring responsibility part.
And beliefs that set me for decades, transformed for a lifetime
Are you wondering, “Did she just wrote, she stopped to care? Why would that staff be written on a therapist website?”
Good. Stay with me. I am going to give you 3 explanations, what did I mean by that, further down.
Because “this life “sentences, aren’t written thoughtfully black on white
Because in “this life”, we only learn what we live, while we are little. And those who meant to teach us, often with the best intention, did only what they’ve learn to be the only right way.
Because they’ve learn what they lived too,
And every so often, because “this life’s” words and letters, are often shadowed by distractions, manipulations and mind games, repeated over and over, there’s no wonder, we struggle to nail it our story for a decades.
We play the only part we ever known, until the part becomes our own. Now, what does that mean and why it’s important?
We came to this world with a belief, that everything is available to us. Rightly. But somewhere, somehow, very so often, some of our needs might not be met. Somewhere, somehow, situations happened, that our minds with that little understanding, being on this Earth for so short, did unfavourable conclusion for us.
Many of us groove up, feeling unsupported, perhaps not safe enough. Or felt disconnected.
Not loved or significant, for who we really are.
Not being celebrated.
Not being praised.
It’s our fundamental need to feel connected, and to avoid being rejected. As a species, that’s how we survive on this planet.
So once our needs aren’t fully met, we pick on a role. The role assures that little child, to blend back to the family/care taker environment. To connect back again, and, or, to avoid rejection (again).
So here comes the first explanation:
I WANT YOU TO UNDERSTAND THE ROLE, because there are more roles, YOU PLAYED AND HOW DID THE ROLE PLAY YOU IN YOUR LIFE.
I like you to connect to that little child. Understanding will set you free from a “play”. I will guide you through to find a solution, for you to meet all these needs yourself. Effortlessly, easily, naturally, you connect to yourself and with yourself first.
You regain your confidence, we all were born with. Reactivate your inner love, you were born with, too. Retain your freedom and a peace in mind for a lifetime.
Our circumstances are as unique as each and every one of us. Our stories are unique. Somewhere, somehow, you might formed sudden belief. A little situation, seemingly insignificant, for other observer perhaps. But your mind attached an unfavourable meaning to it, which disadvantaged you. Often, for the sake of your own protection. Or maybe in your case, even a bigger event happened, later or earlier in a life, that affected your understanding of your existence/ interaction with the world, onwards.
The beliefs we form, does not define us. It is not, who we are. Sadly, as they shape our life, shape our self -esteem, our belief of our worth, belief in abundance of love, health or success, they do root deep enough for us to think, that we are defined by them forever, because they do feel as a part of our identity.
Therefore SEARCH FOR THAT UNIQUE IMPRINT, THE UNIQUE MOMENTS, THAT YOUR MIND FORMED AN UNWANTED BELIEF, IT’S VERY IMPORTANT.
And the third explanation is connected to the “we”, when speaking about you as a client and me as your therapist.
I like to make it obvious, IT IS A COOPERATION. You hold yourself accountable. As your healing is your responsibility. Meaning, we investigate your concerns together. I guide you through the understanding, reprogramming and healing. And you, participate in your recovery, which starts the moment we get in touch.
My passion to solve, help and care did not change a bit. I love my job, I love people. Now, as an adult, I’ll treat you as an adult. We both have our responsibilities here, and am so grateful for anyone to be aware of it as well.
A massive gratitude belongs to my past as well. It set me for a life. The deep desire to solve any issues, the love for writing a beautiful stories, a determination to achieve a universal peace for any living creature, which led to finally finding my purpose. And the purpose is to cooperate with you, and solve your mysteries for& with you. Am so proud to have the best job in the world, because to be an RTT Therapist is an honour, which am forever grateful to Marisa Peer, a phenomenal therapist, teacher and a personality.
So do not wait any longer, and press that button below!
Let me rewrite your story for you.
Because you were worth and meant to be the best version of yourself your whole past life!
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WHAT TO EXPECT FROM A SESSION?
With me as your therapist, I assure you, we safely and precisely find that root of your belief, illness, issue you’re facing, those significant moments. We will give them a meaning, which the situation deserves, in this time of your life. Commanding and directing of your old programming/ old beliefs, will assure your freedom of them. And that will set you free. Free from fear, free from addictions, illness, free from trauma. Then we install a new, powerful, and transformative beliefs, that set you for a life you desire.
What to expect feeling during the session? Expect to feel relaxed, heard, understood, relieved and deeply empowered.
The deep meditation and a precisely chosen tools within it to set you free from unwanted beliefs, traumas and worries, are powerful, transforming, incredibly relaxing.
Natural and effortless. It’s a therapy, with closed eyes. The deep meditation reassures, we gather the exact information we need.
All you must do, is to turn up, open up with concerns you have, feelings you feel, desirables outcomes you wish for. And you commit to listen to the bespoke recording, I’ll create towards the end of the session, every day, without a failure, for the period of 21 days.
We’ll schedule our follow up call, in a week or so. And then after 21 days. That’s our cooperation there.
Depend on the individual and number of concerns/ issues/ worries, 2 or 3, sometimes even 1 session is enough. Amount of sessions will be discussed individually.
You can become your own motivation, code your own mind, to work for you, not against you. If you still hesitate to press that button below, let me tell you something about a procrastination. Because it is nothing less than a fear of failure.
And / or the feeling of unworthiness to deserve what you are dreaming of right now, that feels unachievable in your life.
So let me teach you, how to get rid of a fear. Because once we fill up our life fully enough, with all the things we love, there’s no place for a fear. And more than anything, I like you to start love yourself so fully enough (you gonna learn that too), that you’ll never wait to do the right thing, just like right now.
It will be a pleasure to meet you, and I look forward to our cooperation, transforming you to the best version of yourself.
Kindly
Lucia Popovicova
RTT Therapist, Hypnotherapist and a Fitness Coach